Friday, May 31, 2013

Because the small things matter to me. Because when you take the time to notice and consider those things, it says something. Because I’m over analytical about everything and in the back of my mind, I’m hoping you are too. And finally, because then, I’d know if you actually cared.

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

You got me. There’s no doubt about it.

You have me. And that’s a fact.

You had me. Something I hope I’ll never have to say.

Friday, May 24, 2013

When people Instagram but don’t respond to your texts. Oh. Okay.

Saturday, May 18, 2013

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LOL. Favorite princess.

LOL. Favorite princess.

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Thursday, May 16, 2013

I can’t help it. Why do I over think every little single thing. I told myself that I wouldn’t over analyze things anymore, but I just can’t just ignore the facts. Once a doubtful thought enters your mind, it will never leave. 

Tuesday, May 14, 2013




People being angry about ~dem gays~ on Target’s Facebook.

I just want to give my two cents on this and tell you a story.

A couple weeks ago, I was hired at Target. I have a job at Target. Not a big deal right?

It is a big deal because i’m a transman

It doesn’t take a genius to conclude that it’s hard for me, my brothers, and sisters to get a job. There are legal restraints regarding the job and if you don’t pass, it’s hard to be taken seriously at a job interview.

Right on the application, it asks what your preferred name is. It also asks if there is anything that target should know. I put the fact that I am a transman, expecting not to get a call because usually when you put that down, people will throw out the application. I got TWO interviews.

At the interview, they asked me about it. I told them I am on hormones and they told me that they didn’t care. Not in the sense that they don’t emotionally care, but that it didn’t matter. I was male and that’s all that mattered. They also told me that they give sex same couples benefits in states that do not recognize them as a married couple.

At my job orientation, I was not misgendered once. Even my supervisors who weren’t sure of my gender avoided pronoun use, which I found only happens when you’ve had pronoun training. They gave me a name tag with my preferred name and didn’t ask questions. I felt safe and respected, which is huge for a trans* person.

TLDR: Target is amazing not just for the LGB, but also the T. Shop there for the rest of your life.

well damn, looks like I’m shopping exclusively at Target forever now

Monday, May 13, 2013

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